Proceding of Inter-Islamic University Conference on Psychology
Vol 1 No 1 (2021): Proceding of Inter-Islamic University Conference on Psychology
Articles

Islamic Counseling to Increase Self-Acceptance of Foster Children at Darul Hadlonah 1 Boyolali Orphanage
Konseling Islami Untuk Meningkatkan Penerimaan Diri Anak Asuh Panti Asuhan Darul Hadlonah 1 Boyolali


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  • Aindha Vegalaras Katoro
Aindha Vegalaras Katoro
Universitas Muhammadiyah Surakarta, Indonesia
DOI: https://doi.org/10.21070/iiucp.v1i1.595
Published February 21, 2021
Keywords
  • Self-Acceptance,
  • Islamic Counseling,
  • Traumatic Events

Abstract

A traumatic event such as the death of the father allows the child to blame himself and feel that he is different from other people. Losing a father figure also affects children in terms of courage to take risks, lack of initiative, and tend to experience anxiety. The purpose of this study is to establish a diagnosis based on in-depth information analysis and the application of appropriate interventions so that problems can be resolved. This study uses a qualitative approach, namely the intrinsic case study type. The research subjects were selected purposively with the characteristics of adolescents aged 11-19 years, male sex, living in the Darul Hadlonah 1 orphanage, Boyolali. To obtain detailed and in-depth data, data collection was carried out by in-depth interviews, non-participant observation, and psychological tests, namely graphic tests (DAP, BAUM, HTP), WAIS, Wartegg, SSCT, and EPPS. The data were then analyzed using data collection techniques, data reduction, data display, and conclusions. The results of the analysis show that effective Islamic counseling can increase the subject's self-acceptance. Quantitatively, the pre-test self-acceptance scale showed a score of 17 which was classified as a bit low and after Islamic counseling the subject's self-acceptance score increased by 7 points. Qualitatively, the subject experienced changes both cognitive, affective, and behavior. It can be concluded that Islamic counseling can increase the subject's self-acceptance.

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