Proceding of Inter-Islamic University Conference on Psychology
Vol 1 No 1 (2021): Proceding of Inter-Islamic University Conference on Psychology
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The Effects of Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance on the Meaning of Life in Early Adult Individuals with Divorced Parents
Pengaruh Pemaafan dan Penerimaan Diri terhadap Makna Hidup pada Individu Dewasa Awal yang Memiliki Orang Tua Bercerai


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  • Farra Anisa Rahmania,
  • Kahfi Hizbullah,
  • Syarifah Na’imi Anisa,
  • Hepi Wahyuningsih
Farra Anisa Rahmania
Universitas Islam Indonesia, Sleman, Indonesia
Kahfi Hizbullah
Universitas Islam Indonesia, Sleman, Indonesia
Syarifah Na’imi Anisa
Universitas Islam Indonesia, Sleman, Indonesia
Hepi Wahyuningsih
Universitas Islam Indonesia, Sleman, Indonesia
DOI: https://doi.org/10.21070/iiucp.v1i1.612
Published February 19, 2021
Keywords
  • Forgiveness,
  • Self-Acceptance,
  • Meaning of Life,
  • Divorced Parents

Abstract

The condition of an individual who has divorced parents will affect the meaning of his life. The mean of individuals who live with divorced parents can be influenced by how individuals forgive and accept their circumstances. This study aims to look at the relationship of forgiveness, self-acceptance of the meaning of life in individuals who have divorced parents. The sample of this study was 53 individuals with divorced parents. The researcher using a scale of self-acceptance, a forgiveness scale, and a scale of the meaning of life. The research hypotheses are: (1) there is an effect of self-acceptance on the meaning of life, (2) there is an effect of forgiveness on the meaning of life, and (3) there is an effect of self-acceptance and forgiveness simultaneously on the meaning of life. The results of this study are that there is an effect of forgiveness on the meaning of life and simultaneously with self-acceptance it affects the meaning of life of individuals who have divorced parents. This research is expected to be a reference for scientific studies on individuals who have divorced parents.

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